Wednesday, August 10, 2011

How do you keep from gettin bored in your relationship?

well, no matter how much you "like" someone you will eventually need to make efforts to avoid things from getting too mundane. but in the beginning it may just be a sign youre not dating anyone you are particularly crazy about, whichs fine. but just remember that no one is perfect and you will never ever find your ideal person in another human being. look at every person as another imperfect human such as yourself and from there, leave it a blank slate. let your experiences with the person shape them into who they already are, not your initial perceptions of them, which will likely fade over time as you get to know the real person. you can always find new ways to spice things up, incorporate some of your mutual interests ((which you should have with a person youd date)), try something new together. just mix it up. the issue here seems to be more that youre not giving anyone time to reveal to you who they really are. once you find someone that really "wow"s you then you will be more patient in dealing with their inevitable idiosyncrasies and it will be a much more rewarding relationship once youve begun to understand the real purpose of them. :) good luck

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