Do you think that you can just ignore the commandments or willfully disobey them and still be saved?

If it is a Mormon heresy to say that we must strive to keep the commandments if we wish to receive eternal life, then why did Christ say "keep the commandments" when a man asked what he must do to gain eternal life (see Math. 19:17)? By the way, don't say that the only commandments are to love God and our neighbors. Jesus Christ said "If ye love me keep my commandments." He also commanded His disciples to break bread, to love their enemies, to be baptized by water and the spirit, and a host of MANY other things.