How can I deal with my uptight mother?

a couple options #1 stop having company over explain the situation and if your friends r true friends theyle understand #2 explan to your mom how you feel honesty is the solution of any situation if all else fails #3 explain the situation to your mom and she still dont understand u gata move out you might not even have to go through with it empty nest sydrome is very heart breaking so she might not even let you move out and her be all alone hope that helps.